“Are you the one with the frisbee dog?” She asked.
I’d never been referred to as that one before – but I answered ‘yes’.
The frisbee dog and I have become something of a sidewalk sensation in our new neighborhood – people point and smile at the clueless canine and he pads along, frisbee dangling from his mouth like he’s just a run of the mill big brown dog.
I’ve got to admit he’s pretty cute but the fact he has become my defining feature is a little disconcerting.
I spent my youth being someone’s daughter.I got to be someone’s girlfriend for an hour and half before the guy popped the question and I became someone’s fiancé. I was someone’s wife for forty years and during those years became three someone’s mother.In recent years I’ve become three someone’s grandmother and three someone’s mother-in-law.
And now I’m the one with the frisbee dog.
This gives me pause, I think even I have forgotten that I’m actually a someone too.I’ve been known by association for so long it’s possible I might have a tough time figuring out how I fit into the world on my own. Just me.Just Elva.
Without a reference point who the hell am I?This is all together too much to think about on a rainy Sunday afternoon – too philosophical.I actually have a pretty good handle on who I am right now.
Comments (6)
Everyone should have titles in their lives. From someone’s daughter to one with a frisbee dog sounds good to me.
Penny – 👍
You are the writer extraordinaire!
Ruth – thank you.
Love it! Nothing wrong with being identified with a smart dog like Chester. Can’t think of another dog who plays catch with himself.
Pam – he’s one of a kind, that’s for sure. 😜