I have spent the past three months leaving home.  I’ve been packing, purging, and plundering the stuff of my life.  I said goodbye to sentiment and weighed the importance of everything I owned.  It was tough.  Goodbyes are never easy, but that part of the adventure is over – I am now arriving and this segment of the journey is a whole other kettle of fish. 

I’ve been feeling like a downsizing dynamo – I was ruthless with my purge.  Alas, it appears I only partially plundered and now I have to dig in for round two. My new house is darling – but as ‘darling’ suggests, it’s small. I’m not a small person – figuratively or otherwise – I’ve got a lot of stuff. 

I have a coat collection that spans four decades, forty years of seasonal additions that I love – I am the queen of coats.  All the coats made the move with me but upon stuffing them into the closet of the guest room it became apparent at least half of the collection has to go.  Some retro fashionista is going to hit pay dirt at the Superfluity next week. 

The coats are just my next project – I’ve already driven bags of bedding and boxes of kitchen paraphernalia to the thrift shop this week. It seems half of every box I packed is destined to be dumped. But where the ‘leaving’ purge broke my heart the ‘arriving’ one feels better.  I’m once again being ruthless but this time I’m a real tough mother – my ‘darling’ condo isn’t going to magically grow another room – I have to take downsizing to the next level. 

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  • Linda . April 19, 2019 .

    Elva: my friend is part of a vintage/antique modeling company, which is always looking for ‘decade’ clothes for their shows. If any of your purses, coats, beatle jackets, hotpants, skirts, bell bottoms are from the 60’s or 70’s or 80’s or 90’s. Could you separate me a bag for her please. Just a few items which you think would show well. Thank you. She will be thrilled. Right now she is in mourning for her husband who passed on wednesday, but i will store anything for her until she’s ready. Another wife for our little group- again with the cancer.
    Linda
    PS good luck with your move..tremendous work….. mom and i are doing the same. Im hoping she is leaving with a chair and 3 end tables and her TV set and getting everything new. But then it leaves me a second house to empty. Cant say purge -there’s nothing i want or my girls want. So it’s just empty.

    • (Author) Elva Stoelers . April 19, 2019 .

      Linda – I’m not sure any of my stuff is ‘vintage’ enough for a modeling company but I will keep that in mind.
      I’m so sorry for your friend’s loss – damn that cancer!
      Good luck with the clearing out…. seems like a never ending story.

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